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Topic: i need ur help is there a way?
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artistatwork veteran
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posted 05-21-2000 12:22 PM
Hi guys i need help. I got in trouble with my parents 4 buying and selling stuff on laundro. they don't think it's safe to give out our addy. The thing is i'm sorry to whoever this might have effected. However do u know if there is a way where i can still get stuff like objects or payments without it being sent to our house? I'm not old enought to get a P.O. box cause i'm only 12 so now what?IP: Logged |
Buttercup veteran
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posted 05-21-2000 12:41 PM
maybe if you have a friend who is willing to receive the payments/items, it'll work.IP: Logged |
Crzy4roswell veteran
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posted 05-21-2000 01:06 PM
maybe have your dad receive the things at his work, if he works for a big company or whatever. ------------------ Aim-crazyroswellchik IP: Logged |
junglistica veteran
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posted 05-21-2000 01:21 PM
another thing is ask them to get you your own PO Box for your birthday or christmas or somethin like that.IP: Logged |
artistatwork veteran
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posted 05-21-2000 06:13 PM
hey thanx u guys bt none of those things will work cause : a) my dad isn't supposed to know b) same as a so why would they get me a P.O. box? c) cuz i dunno any of my buds who r alowed to buy stuff from aolmy only good idea which i dunno if it would work was if i had it addressed to the peeps next door and they woulde think it was just a mix-up and bring it over. but then my parents might be home at the time they brought it over. so any1 else with ideas?
thanx to all who contributed! ------------------
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Sweetheart veteran
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posted 05-21-2000 06:16 PM
send it to your house, then BEFORE your parents come home, get it and hide. make sure you ask the buyer to have it in a manila envelope so it goes into your mailbox.  ------------------ aim: daintytinkerbell w h e e ! IP: Logged |
IrishFan veteran
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posted 05-21-2000 06:33 PM
I, personally, think if your parents say 'No', then you shouldn't try and get around it. If they do catch you, you can get in more trouble, and they could take away the Internet, or whatever.  ------------------ Contact Me : joe@j0e.us Check Out My Auctions Invincible's User Page IP: Logged |
artistatwork veteran
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posted 05-21-2000 06:34 PM
thanx sweetheart ur such a sweetheart (no pun intended) any1 else got any ideas?IP: Logged |
artistatwork veteran
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posted 05-21-2000 06:43 PM
yeah i know irishfan but laundro is solike addicting. at 1st i wasn't sure if i should post this but i'm not really betraying them if i get it sent somewhere else. If i get it sent to a P.O. box (just an example i can't really do that) then like i'm not giving our addy out and they wouldn't know or be effected. I know what ur saying and am not saying that what u say is wrong but i reallly have a lot of stuff i want and can get them cheap here or sell my crap and make some extra dough. so thanx for ur imput but i'd rather a positive comment then a negative cuz i'm trying to tell myself dis is ok. thanx again though.IP: Logged |
dawl veteran
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posted 05-22-2000 03:55 AM
i check for mail, so i don't have that problems. when you get a po box, do you have to give out your id? lollame question, maybe you can get your friend's older sister or something?
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artistatwork veteran
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posted 05-22-2000 04:34 AM
thanx dawl but what u said wouldn't work cause a) they wouldn't do it 4 me b) the P.O. people would know we're too young c)let's just say we get the P.O. box-then i hafta pay 4 it. Y would i be sellings stuff on laundro then if i'd be losing money 4 paying 4 the p.o. box. u c there's this rule that if i want something that i don't need and they won't pay 4-i hafta pay. so i have as lot of stuff i want 4 sleep-away camp....lotta money needed. get my pic? i don't want blow it on a p.o. box when i don't even live near a post office! but thanx 4 ur imput ------------------
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artistatwork veteran
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posted 05-22-2000 06:19 PM
Please guys!!! I really need ur help!!! I buy all kind of crap so if u help me now i'll probably buy a ton of junk from u sooner or later. BUT I NEED HELP!!!IP: Logged |
Buttercup veteran
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posted 05-22-2000 08:14 PM
geeze, we tried giving you all our ideas. I'm sorry things aren't working out for you, but don't get mad at us for not being able to come up with a plan that actually works. the situation seems impossible.IP: Logged |
CityBornGirl veteran
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posted 05-22-2000 08:22 PM
You know what, artistatwork, you can't have it both ways so make up your mind. If you want to stick with Laundro, then you gotta find a way to work it out with your parents, or if you can't do that, then don't stop by Laundro anymore. Simple. Don't make it this complicated. And don't get mad at everyone else because you know what, they have honestly tried to help.------------------ Formerly known as Ultima108 Email me! joe@j0e.us
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artistatwork veteran
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posted 05-23-2000 02:19 PM
I wasn't getting mad at u guys. ANd u don't understand. HOw would it feel if ur parents all of the suddent told u u had to stop seeing laundro or they would take every privalege u ever had away??? I love laundro (not that way) and i was just trying to tell u guys that if u help me now then i would help u somehow later. WHat goes around comes around.IP: Logged |
Surferfreak veteran
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posted 05-23-2000 04:04 PM
Well, why do your friends have to buy stuff online if you do? You can still ask them if you can have some stuff shipped over there (that is if they really are your friends). You can get a job to pay for the PO box (babysitting, racking lawns, selling jewelery, selling address labels, be creative you can get a job to pay for a PO box, I don't think you need to have an ID or whatever). Please don't freak out! My parents think I spend way to much time on laundro too! But just get on like once every 2 days or something. ------------------ LOOK--> my DIY site joe@j0e.us --> please email me here IP: Logged |
Lana@Laundro staffer
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posted 05-23-2000 07:19 PM
you are supposed to get parental permission first but anyway...the friend thing is they only thing that has been proved to work but if none of your friends can get it then that's a problem. i'll be thinking and i'll let you know if i think of something. ------------------ check out my stuff i'm selling. IP: Logged |
candyacid veteran
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posted 05-23-2000 08:01 PM
These people gave you fabulous ideas...Yet you shot them all down, and now you're telling THEM what goes around comes around? Please. All I can say is that if there is no way you can get this to work by: - shipping to friends. - p/o boxing it. - convincing your parents. then there is no way. period. Thats all. ------------------ for entertainment purposes only. envy.nu/acid --> personal page laundromatic.j0e.us/cgi-bin/laundro.cgi?justdisp&Candyacid --> laundro page joe@j0e.us --> contact me
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klumsygirl newbie
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posted 05-23-2000 08:06 PM
lol with candyacid... I don't think there are many other ideas available... I mean, the best suggestion I could give to you is to talk it over with your parents, or ask your friends if any of them could help out. I know that these suggestions were already used, but these are probably the most ideal ones. I wouldn't feel right if I had to sneak the packages in and out (like your neighbor idea) because you never know when you'll be caught. If you have a penpal (that your parents know about) ask the people you buy or sell with to put your penpals name as the return address. You can't just have it so you'll hear the positive side of doing something your parents don't want you to do. If you didn't want to read about the negative aspects, then you should have posted... Sorry I didn't help. [This message has been edited by klumsygirl (edited 05-23-2000).] IP: Logged |
*trouble*maker* veteran
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posted 05-23-2000 08:21 PM
my solution.your 12. deal with it. my parents didn't let me do shit when i was 12. oh yeah... and.. [[c)let's just say we get the P.O. box-then i hafta pay 4 it. Y would i be sellings stuff on laundro then if i'd be losing money 4 paying 4 the p.o. box.]] well, ignoring the total grammatic error in this sentence, you sorta negated yourself. you're not losing money paying for the po box. welcome to the land of initial costs. i mean, you can't make money without the po box, so you're not really getting out ahead without the po box... sorry. i'm being old and bitter now. 
------------------ *sarah* loves you! wanna make me happy? :D
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artistatwork veteran
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posted 05-23-2000 08:30 PM
thanx to all! I really have taken ur thoughts under consideration. Ur not being old and bitter. And if i've shot ur ideas down it's only cuz i'm frustrated. Just earlier i saw my fav flavore (cucumber melon) soap and anti-bacterial gel (which i've been looking everywhere 4) up 4 auction. AND I COULDN"T BID!!!!! Well i've been looking at my friends and i've decided it's unfair they should hafta deal with my problem. Then the P.O. box thing. I dunno where the closest P.O. is so how would i get there? Also thanx 2 which ever 1 of u said that ur parents didn't let u do $^#%& when u were 12. That's got me thinking. IF i really care about my parents... y am i looking 4 a way to betray them? New question 4 u all. Is there a way that I can show them that laundro isn't bad? (and if u can answer the old q be my guest) thanx again u guys------------------
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klumsygirl newbie
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posted 05-23-2000 08:38 PM
Well... good 'ol USPS should have your answer to where the nearest PO is. Just fill out this form ( http://www.framed.usps.com/ncsc/locators/find-po.html ) and you should have your answers. Try to show your parents that people you'll be dealing with are NOT pedophiles, molestors, whatever... by showing them a few peoples feedback. Get them to look around the site, maybe they'll have a good vibe on the site. [This message has been edited by klumsygirl (edited 05-23-2000).] IP: Logged |
CityBornGirl veteran
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posted 05-24-2000 01:19 AM
On a totally unrelated topic, I find your writing a bit hard to read, but that's just me.  But to get back on topic, yeah, there are no other ideas out there. Unless you manage to sell tons of crap and still end up making money even after paying for your PO box. ------------------ Formerly known as Ultima108 Email me! joe@j0e.us
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dawl veteran
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posted 05-24-2000 04:16 AM
you haven't seen enough yet cityborn girl  but anyways, talk to your parents, tell them you can learn how to manage buisness, LOL...blah...errr i don't know IP: Logged |
artistatwork veteran
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posted 05-25-2000 02:17 PM
thanx u guys but blah my parents are blah!! i started aq buisiness with my bud selling really cute littl handbags and tehy said no. that we weren''t allowed to sell. imagine what they'd say to this if they knew i was stilling finding ways or trying to get around them!IP: Logged |